When I began "A Thousand Splendid Suns" by Khaled Hosseini, a lot of people told me the book was very intense. I thought that I'd read my share of tough books, from the Kite Runner, also by Hosseini to Street Pharm by Allison von Diepen. But nothing could have prepared me for this.
This book has a lot of adult things. Their is a lot of violence. Some language. Some sexual references and some sex. But there is also the mood set throughout the book, created by the hardships occurring in Afghanistan.
The characters in this book suffer from some awful things. Suicide. The death of parents and lovers. Injustice. And an abusive husband.
The book is about two women, named Mariam and Laila. I think these characters are the best characters to show the struggle in Afghanistan through, because women got the bad end of the deal. They are treated inferior because of the beliefs of their leaders, and they definitley had it rougher.
Mariam is forced to marry a 40 something year old man after her mother commits suicide. She moves out of Herat, a city in western Afghanistan, to Kabul with her husband, Rasheed. May I mention that Mariam is only 15 years old? A 15 year old married to a 45 year old man. That doesn't sound right to me.
Rasheed desperately wants a boy, because his son drowned years ago. Yet, after several failed attempts to have a child, it turns out Mariam can't bear children. This happens a lot in Hosseini's books. Two people in "The Kite Runner" were unable to bear children. I think that this makes the story a little more harsh, but leads to some beautiful parts.
Well, Rasheed becomes disappointed in her. He begins to become surely, especially that now, Soviet rule over Afghanistan is not so good. He begins to scorn Mariam, and abuse her. Eventually, he forces her to chew on some pebbles. That's just awful.
The story is not only about Mariam. I like this, because it gives the reader two perspectives of the same struggle. There are definitley two sides to every story.
Laila, the other main character, is a girl who lives a reativley pampered life, compared to Mariams. She is born when Mariam is around 19, so she is quite a bit younger than her. She feels the hardships of the war aswell, because both of her brothers are fighting the Soviets. Her mother, who loves Laila's brothers more than anything in the world, is a wreck. She as the symptoms of bipolar disorder, but not a case as sever as Ben's mom in "Deadline". Laila is friends with a boy named Tariq, a strong boy with only one leg. Then, tragedy strikes. Laila's brothers are killed by Soviets. Her mother falls into a state of complete depression, blaming her husband for her sons death. Then, the Soviets are kicked out and the Mujihadeen take control of Afghanistan. At first, things are good again. Then war destroys Kabul. Rockets rain down, and warlords fight continuously, killing many innocent people. Soon, Laila and Tariq begin to be more open about their feelings from each other. Then, Tariq leaves, but not after giving Laila something to remember from him. Then, Laila's mother finally agrees to leave. As they are bringing out the stuff to the truck, Laila's house is hit by a rocket. Her parents are killed, and she marries Rasheed.
At first, things aren't so bad. But then, Laila realizes that she is pregnant with Tariq's baby. She does her best to fool Rasheed that it is his baby, but Rasheed still has a hunch. Rasheed still wants a boy, but the baby turns out to be a girl, which Laila names Aziza. Rasheed is disappointed, and is mean to Aziza.
Laila was part of a slightly liberal family. While Rasheed believes that women are lower that men, Laila has always been taught that men and women are equal. Rasheed beats her, because he believes that Laila is turning Mariam toward defiance. He beats them so much that they become friends, united against their common enemy. They then decide to run away.
This is extremely brave on their part. Running away to Pakistan is not easy, because Pakistan has already closed its border with Afghanistan. They are caught, and then Rasheed nearly kills them both when he locks them in two seperate places with no water or food. The temperatures are excruciatingly hot.
After that, a man comes to give Laila the news that Tariq was killed by a rocket, along with his parents. This news crushes Laila, but she tries not to show it.
Then the Taliban take control of Afghanistan. This is especially hard on women. The laws restrict women from many things, like showing their face,wearin makeup, or going outside without a man. Also, laughing, singing, television and movies are banned. During this time, Laila gives birth to a boy who is named Zalmai. This makes Rasheed very happy, but he becomes increasingly cruel to Aziza.
Mariam and Laila take Aziza to an orphanage when Taliban raids begin. Rasheed does not want to visit his harami* of a daughter, so Laila goes without a man, often getting caught and beaten.
Then, more beating ensues. Rasheed even threatens to kill Laila with his gun. The war in Kabul has forced Rasheed out of work, so things are tough around the household. Then, Rasheed gets work at a hotel. And guess who shows up one while Rasheed is at work. Tariq!
Tariq isn't really dead. He tells Laila of his time in Afghanistan, where both his parents have died. Noticing wounds from Rasheed's beatings, Tariq begs Laila to join him in Pakistan. She says no, and later, he leaves. Then, Rasheed finds out Tariq was there, and begins to beat his wives. Laila fights back, but is subdued. Then, Mariam finds it in her soul to fight back against her evil husband. As Rasheed attempts to strangle Laila to death, Mariam kills him with a shovel.
Laila goes to Pakistan with Tariq, Aziza and Zalmai. Mariam stays, and is executed. I cried at this part, because it then, where Mariam feels redeemed. She has lived her entire life suffering, being treated like dirt. But then, she feels she has done what is right, but feels awful for taking away Zalmai's right to a father who loved him dearly. And with these feelings of redemption and guilt, she dies at the hands of a Talib in fromt of a crowd of clucking spectators.
So far, this has been an amazing book. At first, I liked it, but wasn't into the story, really feeling the character's emotions. But later in the book, I sobbed when a character died. This book is heart wrenching, showing the suffering of Afghanistan in the eyes of two woman who had their childhoods destroyed by war, and their pride destroyed by an abusive husband. But, as Laila says herself, "Every Afghan story is marked by death and loss and unimagineable grief. And yet,... people find a way to survive, to go on." This sums up the story. It is not a story of death and sadness though many deaths and many hardships occur. It is a story of the will to survive, told in the beautiful and heart breaking way only Khaled Hosseini can.